Sometimes we date the potential of a person, and overlook the reality of who they are. That's why I call this book "Dating Potential". We enter into and often remain in relationships hoping the other person will grow or change. That's where the mistake lies. We place the weight of our decision to be with them on hope. Hope that they will one day become the person we imagine they can be. I realized that imaginary person is typically who we actually enter into a relationship with. Meet "Potential". This book offers some realistic guidelines, though not exhaustive, of what to consider when you enter relationships prior to marriage. Reading this also affords each one of us to take an introspective look at ourselves to evaluate whether or not we are doing the very things we are expecting or desire in our future spouse. Are we energy in motion or are we Potential? Selah has a strong passion for sharing the gospel. She has embraced and put into action the call on her life to lead ministry groups, teach, and minister through dance in multiple churches at home and abroad. Becoming an author has been another way for her to share her passion with the masses. Her desire is to see people become believers of God through faith in Jesus Christ. Her aspiration is to inspire and uplift believers all over the world and encourage them to achieve EVERYTHING God has called them to be, while experiencing life more abundantly through Christ Jesus!