Gender as we used to know it is being upended, and no more dramatically than in the hands of the youngest generation--from children aged two to young adults just old enough to vote. There has been an explosion in the number of people who are saying they are not the gender everyone thought they were or who do not want to follow the rules of gender inscribed in the patterns of our society. As this phenomenon has unfolded, some people have celebrated, others are alarmed, while many are confused. Gender Explained is the complete road map to understanding what is going on--and how gender continues to evolve today. Armed with the latest research, psychologists Diane Ehrensaft and Michelle Jurkiewicz help readers understand today's gender phenomenon, dispel myths, and answer the most common questions that appear in their clinical practice. Why are so many kids today playing with gender? What does it mean that gender is on a spectrum? How should a parent respond to their gender creative child? How can we support those who are exploring gender? This book advocates for gender affirming care and highlights the importance of listening to what young people are trying to teach us about gender amid conflicting social and cultural norms. It features personal stories from both gender creative children and adolescents as well as parents whose children are playing with gender. Gender Explained pulls back the curtain on how and why the youngest generation is "doing" gender in new and different ways and outfits all of us with the gender literacy to understand gender and move freely in this new world.
Gender is everywhere. Politicians argue over it, educational systems struggle to define it, and our friends, neighbors, and children explore it. More than ever before, young people are questioning their gender identities and redefining the role of gender in their lives. How should our society--and we as individuals (parents, teachers, friends)--respond? In Gender Explained, Diane Ehrensaft, PhD, and Michelle Jurkiewicz, PsyD, separate medical fact from fear-mongering falsehoods and answer these questions: What should parents do when their child starts experiencing gender dysphoria? Which sports teams should transgender youth play on? How should schools teach young people about gender? And most important: What is gender-affirming care, and when should an individual have access to it? With clear, expert guidance, this book is a safeguard against political vitriol, and it offers u