The Law of Truly Large Numbers is a book about coming to terms with loss and the arrival of unexpected, perhaps undeserved, love. Based on the statistical principle that in a truly large sample set anything outrageous is likely to happen, this book not only explores the outrageous things that have already happened--the loss of siblings and parents; the loss of home, friends, and relatives; the weight of illness and physical aging--but also the discovery and rediscovery of friendship as well as romantic and familial connections. Often locating themselves where mourning and celebration, grief and humor intersect, these poems consider the sometimes-unexpected ways in which grief might open new channels for understanding and, ultimately, for love.