LeFemme LaShay (E.J. Joseph) is a former exotic dancer originally from Port-au-Prince, Haiti. While she was a toddler, her family left Haiti for Boston, Massachusetts, before they moved to Miami, Florida. She graduated from Miami Central High School, and didn't start working the pole until her mid-twenties. While working her way around the South Florida exotic dance scene, she earned certifications with Medical Billing & Coding being one of them. Due to the money being easier to get, she continued shaking her money maker at over a dozen clubs in a 15 year span. She made many mistakes, including blow through more money than she should have. Her book, So You Want To Be A Stripper? The Comprehensive Guide To Go From Girl-Next-Door To Pole Dancing Diva, is her way to guide girls in and out of the strip club in 4 years or less, with something positive to show from it.